Life’s
Transitions
In our lives, we are faced with many
challenges- mountains to climb (the hurdles in our lives), changes to face with
excitement or fears – (growing up, moving on, new job, new career, children
leaving home….) losses of plenty throughout our lives – (whether it be a family
member or friend, job loss, loss of pride, loss of home) and as we grow older
loss of ability may be faced by many.
These are some of the obstacles in the transition of life that we
face. Many of these challenges make us
stronger, wiser and build the confidence we need to move on and face them with
a type of vigor that you never knew you had.
In the face of change we may dread the not
knowing – the fear of the unknown, but once we have faced the challenge, dealt
with the loss and tackle the obstacles, the hurdle no longer appears to be the
impossible. This is the case of so many
over the past few years through the recession.
On top of the everyday challenges we face, many dreams were shattered,
many plans for ones future were changed, many losses were faced by those who
lost their jobs and had to look at new careers or find new jobs doing what they
know how to do in a different setting.
Many people went through the 2nd
Careers program that the Ontario Government offered, only to find that the
courses they were encouraged to take was not a wise move for them. Jobs were
not there; wages were too low; the hope of the new transition in a time in
their lives that change should not have been a decision they had to make –
failed. Many of these individuals went
back to school again, incurring debt this time to enhance what they knew and
reenter the workforce with an education they previously did not need in their
field; others tried to start their own businesses – many of them finding the
pressures of sales and a low economy too much to bear and as we drew out of the
recession and jobs presented themselves, they moved back into the workforce
once again.
Are we clear of the changes that face us
due to a poor economy? If you listen to
the news, you would say no we are not. There
are more changes to come they say. This
is true because life is full of change – planned and unplanned, exciting and
frightening, devastating and enhancing.
It is how we deal with change that affects each and every one of us
differently.
If you are unsure of what to do in the face
of change – ask for assistance! If you
lose your job and don’t know where to turn – seek out a career specialist that
can guide you in your choices. If you
want to start your own business, turn to the centre in your area that offers
courses and guidance in starting your own business – Business Enterprise Centre’s,
Innovation Centre’s, Chambers of Commerce to name a few. If you have your own business and want to
plan your retirement – speak to a succession planning specialist to assist with
the transition. If it is life’s
personal challenges you face – turn to a friend, your family or a specialist to
help guide you through the challenges you face.
You do not have to face change alone – seek out those
around you. Embrace change and face
it! Live life to the fullest!
Lynne Bard, BA (Honours), C.H.R.P., CES
Human Resources, Safety & Risk Management Experts
Taking the Complexity out of Compliance
President
Beyond Rewards Inc.
Phone: 519-821-7440
Cell: 519-830-7480
mail: lbard@beyondrewards.ca