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1: Get Help: Utilize the Backing of your Organization
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2: Plan the Logistics: Where, When, How Long, Etc.
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3: Expect the Unexpected
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4: Prepare Yourself Emotionally
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5: Control the Interview
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6: Give Clear Explanations
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7: Be Professional
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8: Respond to the Employee as a Person
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9: Congratulate Yourself: Review your Performance and Move on
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10: Some Do’s and Don’ts
Do’s
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Terminate in the first ten minutes of the conversation. Avoid
a long build-up to soften the blow because this will often only confuse and
cloud the message.
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Be clear and answer questions. Make sure the employee
understands that they’re being terminated. Once you’ve explained the situation,
let the employee ask questions.
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Let your employee respond. Let the employee speak their mind.
Acknowledge any valid points and tell the employee that you appreciate their
input and candidness.
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End on a positive note. Thank the employee for their
contributions and wish them luck in the future. When the meeting is over, stand
up and shake their hand.
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Expect the best out of yourself, this situation, and the
response of the employee.
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Rehearse what you will say and how you conduct the meeting if
possible.
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Put yourself in the employee’s shoes, then do what you feel
is right.
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Specify clearly why the employee is being terminated and the
effective date and time of the termination.
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Inform the employee of any rights or entitlements that they
may have coming.
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Ensure the return of any property that is the employers.
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Cover all areas of security, including computer passwords,
access to company property or data, and physical security of the job site and
other employees.
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Ask the employee if he or she understands the reasons for the
termination.
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Focus your discussion on performance related issues.
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Arrange for the employee to remove personal effects in
private.
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If possible, offer the employee an opportunity to resign.
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Document the termination conference.
Don’ts
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Don’t give employees false hope and say you’ll help them find
a job.
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Don’t say, “I’m sure you’re not going to have any trouble.
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Don’t pass the buck and say this firing was not your idea.
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Don’t give platitudes and say, “you’ll feel better when you
sleep on it.”
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Don’t say, “I feel really bad about this.” Saying these
things only makes the situation worse.
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Don’t get defensive.
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Don’t interrupt, contradict or try to defend yourself or the
company. Arguing will only create resentment and frustration on the part of the
employee.
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Don’t assess blame or make apologies. There’s no reason to
blame the employee or the company for the termination. Just explain that the
company’s needs don’t match the employee’s particular skills.
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Don’t apologize, you can express regret that the employment
relationship didn’t work out, but don’t apologize.
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Don’t debate with the employee. Give honest answers, but
don’t debate.
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Don’t make value judgments or attempt to analyze the reasons
for dismissal. Cite the reasons briefly and factually.
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Don’t take responsibility for the failure. You may want to
simply express regret that the opportunity did not work out.
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Don’t use words like “incompetent” or “dishonest”. Focus on
performance.
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Don’t offer advice. Listen respectfully, but don’t offer
advice or recriminations.
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Don’t discuss the termination with anyone other than the employee
and those directly involved.